Your parents gave you the money for your deposit, and now you have read that if one of them dies within seven years there could be a tax bill. Here is the part that matters and that most explanations skip: if there is tax on that gift, it is you — the person who received the deposit — that HMRC looks to first, not your parents' estate and not your siblings.

A gifted deposit is, in inheritance tax terms, a potentially exempt transfer. If the parent who made the gift lives for seven years, it falls out of account entirely and there is nothing to pay. If they die within seven years, the gift is pulled back into their estate, and depending on the size of everything else, tax can follow it. The seven-year clock is real, but it does not work the way most people picture it, and taper relief helps far less often than its name suggests.

This page sets out who actually pays, how the seven years and the taper really work, and how families take the risk off the table while the clock runs down.

At a glance

  • A gifted deposit is a potentially exempt transfer: nothing to pay if the parent survives seven years.
  • If they die within seven years, the gift is added back to their estate for inheritance tax.
  • Where the gift sits within the nil-rate band, it usually increases the tax on the rest of the estate rather than producing a separate bill.
  • Where tax is due on the gift itself, HMRC looks first to the person who received it — the child given the deposit.
  • Taper relief reduces the tax, not the gift, and only applies where the gift is above the nil-rate band.

The short answer: the recipient carries the risk

Most people assume that if a gift ever becomes taxable, the bill lands on the estate and is sorted out by whoever deals with it. For a gift like a deposit, that is not the default. Where a potentially exempt transfer fails because the giver died within seven years, and tax is actually due on that gift, the person primarily liable to pay it is the person who received the gift. The estate and its personal representatives only become liable if the recipient has not paid within a set period after the death.

So the risk you are carrying, quietly, is your own. It is worth understanding properly rather than hoping the seven years pass unnoticed — because if they do not, the letter comes to you.

Why a gifted deposit is a "potentially exempt transfer"

When one individual gives money to another — a parent to a child, say — the gift is a potentially exempt transfer. It is "potentially" exempt because whether it escapes inheritance tax depends entirely on the giver surviving seven years from the date of the gift. Live seven years and it is exempt, full stop. Die within seven years and it becomes a "failed" transfer that is brought back into the calculation.

Part of a deposit may be covered by exemptions that apply straight away and never form part of the seven-year risk at all. Each person has an annual exemption for gifts, and unused allowance from the previous year can be carried forward once. Parents can also give money in consideration of a child's marriage. These reduce the amount that is treated as a potentially exempt transfer in the first place.

Source: gov.uk, How Inheritance Tax works: thresholds, rules and allowances, which sets the annual exemption at £3,000 and the parental gift in consideration of marriage at £5,000.

Exemptions that can shrink the seven-year gift

Before you worry about the clock at all, it is worth stripping out the parts of the gift that never sit under the seven-year rule. Several exemptions apply immediately, so only the remainder is the potentially exempt transfer that has to survive seven years.

Each parent has an annual exemption they can give away with no inheritance tax consequences, and if they did not use the previous year's allowance, it can be carried forward once. On top of that, small gifts to any number of different people are exempt, gifts in consideration of marriage or civil partnership are exempt up to set limits depending on the relationship, and regular gifts made out of surplus income — not capital — can be exempt where they follow a genuine pattern and do not reduce the giver's standard of living. Where two parents give jointly, the exemptions apply to each of them, which can cover a meaningful slice of a deposit straight away.

Source: gov.uk, How Inheritance Tax works: thresholds, rules and allowances, which sets the annual exemption at £3,000, small gifts at £250 per person, and gifts in consideration of marriage at £5,000 from a parent and £2,500 from a grandparent.

How the nil-rate band is used up first

This is the mechanism that trips everyone up. Every estate has a nil-rate band — the amount that can pass before inheritance tax applies — and inheritance tax is charged at 40% above it. Failed gifts are set against that band first, in date order, before the rest of the estate gets to use it.

Source: gov.uk, How Inheritance Tax works: thresholds, rules and allowances, which sets the nil-rate band at £325,000 and the standard rate at 40%. An additional residence nil-rate band of £175,000 can apply where a home passes to direct descendants.

Follow it through with a deposit that sits comfortably within the band. If a parent gifted, say, part of their nil-rate band as a deposit and then died within seven years, there is usually no tax on the gift itself — but the gift has eaten into the band, so there is that much less band left to shelter the rest of the estate. The result is not a separate bill on the deposit; it is a larger inheritance tax bill on everything else the parent owned. That is why a gift can cost the family tax even when the gift itself is nowhere near the taxable threshold on its own.

Taper relief: what it does and does not do

Taper relief is the most misunderstood part of the whole subject. It does not reduce the value of the gift. It reduces the tax payable on the gift, and only where there is tax on the gift to reduce — that is, only where the gift exceeds the nil-rate band. For a single deposit that fits inside the band, taper relief typically does nothing at all, because the cost has landed as extra tax on the estate, not as tax on the gift.

Where the gift is large enough to be taxed in its own right, the relief steps down the rate the longer the giver survived.

How taper relief reduces the tax on a gift above the nil-rate band
Years between gift and death Rate of tax on the taxable part of the gift
Up to 3 years40%
3 to 4 years32%
4 to 5 years24%
5 to 6 years16%
6 to 7 years8%
7 years or more0% — exempt

Source: gov.uk, How Inheritance Tax works: thresholds, rules and allowances, taper relief table.

Who actually gets the bill

Bringing the threads together: if the failed gift is within the nil-rate band, there is no separate bill on you, but the whole estate pays more, so everyone inheriting from it — including your siblings — receives less. If the gift is large enough to be taxed in its own right, HMRC comes to you, the recipient, for the tax on it first, and only turns to the estate if it goes unpaid.

That split is where family friction tends to start, because a deposit given to one child can reduce what the others inherit, and the person who benefited is not always the person left carrying a bill. We follow that argument through in a gifted deposit, a dead parent and siblings who want their share. Keeping a clear record of the gift — the date, the amount, who gave it and which exemptions were used — makes the executors' job far easier and helps avoid a dispute built on guesswork.

In practice, the reckoning happens when the estate is administered. The people dealing with it have to declare gifts made in the seven years before death on the inheritance tax account, and HMRC works back through that history to see how much of the nil-rate band each gift used. If you cannot show that an exemption applied, the whole deposit is treated as a potentially exempt transfer, so the paperwork your parents keep now — a simple note of the gift and a line in a letter of wishes — directly affects the size of any bill later. It is dull, and it is worth doing, because memory alone rarely satisfies a tax enquiry years after the event.

Reducing the risk while the clock runs

You cannot make the seven years pass faster, but you can insure the risk they carry. The standard tool is a decreasing term policy on the life of the parent who made the gift, running for the seven years and written so the sum insured steps down broadly in line with the taper. If the parent dies during the period, the payout is there to meet the potential tax rather than leaving it to fall on the recipient. Because such a policy is usually written in trust for whoever would bear the cost, the money reaches them directly and outside the estate. It is one of the few situations where the shape of a policy maps almost exactly onto the shape of the risk — and you can get life insurance quotes to see how it would work for your parents' circumstances.

It is worth keeping this in proportion alongside the other ways money and a house interact after a death — the reducing balance of a gift is a very different animal from, for instance, a Help to Buy equity loan that grows with the house. And whatever your parents decide, their wills should reflect the gift, because a will does not adjust itself when they help you out, any more than having a baby updates a will. If a grandparent is helping fund a deposit rather than a parent, the same seven-year mechanics apply — the theme running through grandparents who pay towards a family and what happens if they die.

Scotland, Northern Ireland and the rest of the UK

Here is one of the very few death-and-money questions where the answer genuinely is the same everywhere. Inheritance tax is a UK-wide tax collected by HMRC, so the seven-year rule, the nil-rate band, the 40% rate and taper relief work identically in England, Wales, Scotland and Northern Ireland. A gifted deposit is treated the same wherever the family lives.

What differs across the UK is the succession law around the rest of the estate — Scotland, for example, gives a spouse and children legal rights to a share that cannot simply be written out — but that affects who inherits what is left, not how the gift itself is taxed. For the tax on the deposit, treat the position as UK-wide, and take advice from an accountant or the estate's solicitor if the sums are large. Our guide to the life events that change who depends on you sets the wider context.

Frequently asked questions

What happens if my parents die within seven years of gifting the deposit?

The gift becomes a failed potentially exempt transfer and is brought back into their estate for inheritance tax. It uses up the nil-rate band first, so it often increases the tax due on the rest of the estate rather than producing a separate bill on the gift itself.

Who actually pays the tax on the gift?

Primarily the person who received it. Where a gift becomes chargeable because the giver died within seven years and tax is due on the gift itself, HMRC looks to the recipient for that tax, and to the estate only if it goes unpaid. That is a bill landing on the child given the deposit.

How does taper relief work?

It reduces the tax on a gift, not the value of the gift, and only bites where the gift exceeds the nil-rate band. There is no reduction in the first three years; the tax then falls by twenty per cent of its value for each further year, reaching nil after seven years.